When the Spark Is Gone: How to Bring Back the Joy in Your Marriage

If you miss snuggling and flirting, dreaming about your future together, and laughing at inside jokes, it’s deeply disappointing when that goes missing. It’s lonely. It’s sad.

Without that spark, life can start to feel like it’s just work, chores, and sleep. The joy disappears. The connection fades. And you may start to wonder if it’s always going to feel this way.

The Good News? It Doesn’t Have to Stay This Way

If you want to feel desired again…If you long for spontaneous hugs…If you want to see his face light up just because you walked in the room…You can get all of that back, just like in your dating days.

I wouldn’t have believed it myself if I hadn’t lived through the contrast between a cold, distant marriage and a warm, loving one. That shift was only possible because I discovered a completely different way to approach my relationship—one that actually worked.

The 6 Intimacy Skills™ That Changed Everything

Relationship expert Laura Doyle was once in a loveless marriage too. Desperate to fix it, she interviewed women in happy marriages to find out what they were doing differently. Their answers seemed old-fashioned and even outlandish at first—but when she tried them, everything changed. From those conversations, Laura created the 6 Intimacy Skills™, which she shares in her book The Empowered Wife (available in paperback or audiobook). She also hosts The Empowered Wife Podcast, where real women share how they're using the Skills to create more love, connection, and peace in their homes.

The 6 Intimacy Skills work.Thousands of women have used them to revive their marriages and feel cherished again. They went from being "resistible porcupines" to "irresistible magnets"—and so did I.

From Lonely to Loved: My Personal Journey

I’m incredibly grateful I learned the Skills. They’ve not only helped me heal my marriage, but they also guide me in all my relationships every day. That’s why I became a Laura Doyle Certified Coach—to help other women find the same joy and connection that I now have.

When you’re stuck in a loveless marriage, nothing compares to having a coach who’s walked in your shoes and now feels adored, desired, and taken care of by the same man. As your coach, I’ll help you discover what you don’t even know you don’t know. But I’ll do it in a soft, safe, and non-judgmental way. I’ll share my own embarrassing stories, create emotional safety, and ask powerful questions that lead to real breakthroughs and to help you go from feeling neglected and abandoned to feeling empowered and adored in a thriving marriage.

You Don’t Have to Do It Alone

If your way isn’t working, there is no shame in reaching out for support. As your coach, I will walk alongside you and help you understand the 6 Intimacy Skills™, how to practice them, and why they’re so effective. This shift—from despair to hope—starts when you realize you have the power to bring back that loving feeling.

Standing for Your Marriage

When women stand for other women and their marriages, amazing things happen.  It feels so good to be supported by a woman who is encouraging, inspiring, and fully committed to having a loving marriage. You can focus on becoming your best self so you can have the best relationship.

Are you ready?

If you’re ready to explore the 6 Intimacy Skills™ and dig deep to become the woman you aspire to be, I invite you to schedule your free discovery call today! I can’t wait to connect and support you on this journey. Don’t hesitate—reach out now, and let’s get started! marriagehopecoach@gmail.com